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i was debating whether or not to blog about my issue simply bc i do not want to turn my blog site into a depressing ass rant, BUT i was left no choice. my head has been banging every since i got out of bed this morning. i know exactly why my head is hurting, its called stress. right now im just not happy. theres no other way to put it. im miserable. im unsure about a lot of things. i feel like over the past 2 or 3 yrs that i've lost myself. im not the same person that i used to be. i know that im more mature & more wiser than 3 yrs ago, BUT something still is not right. i feel like my life is just going in circles, like im not really getting or going anywhere. last night i sat down & i asked myself when & where did i go wrong. to be honest, i think my problems all started after i decided to stop attending nursing school. i was 18 or 19 @ the time, my first time being away from home, & i was just ready to do me. nursing school wasn't too difficult to for me, BUT i guess i just couldn't find a way to balance my social life in w school. now that i think back i was stupid to quit school. the only reason i say i was stupid was bc i gave up school to be w a worthless ass nigga. thats when i lost myself. everything became about me & him, instead of me just worrying about myself. since that relationship i have learned a lot. never sacrifice shit for a man, unless he's your husband. right now im not feeling like i want things to be perfect in my life but.... i already know @ this point in time i need to just focus on me. i need to figure out what makes me happy. ive been contemplating putting my relationship on hold, just so that i can regroup. im not even sure a relationship is what i want anymore. right now i feel like i just prefer being alone. ppl ask all the time what is your idea of happiness, & sad to say i don't know. that statement alone is sad to me, not knowing what makes you happy or lifts your spirits. i will get it together, BUT i need to know where to start......